Sex advice needed

[Unffordd]

Right, I've NC for this as it's a bit embarrassing...

Brief background - I married my first lover and was with him for a total of 24 years before we divorced. I was then celibate for several years before meeting my current chap. DTD with him for the first time was obviously pretty terrifying as he was only my second lover and there'd been nobody at all for quite a while. However, things are going well and we're getting more confident with each other. Last time I saw him he suggested that he did it from behind, doggy fashion. I'm perfectly happy to try this, but it's not a position my XH liked, so we couldn't manage to...ahem.... get my new bloke in & keep him there... (blushes).

I can't remember doing it this way since I was pregnant (DD now 15!) as it had positional advantages then. Should I lean across the bed? Be down on all fours? Common sense tells me that he has to be slightly lower than me so he can thrust upwards - is this correct?

I can't quite belive I'm asking this, but I'd be grateful of the benefit of others' wisdom. (Goes to drink large glass of wine.)

Silvery - it's a long distance relationship, which suits us both fine, so I was sort of hoping that by the time we get to try this out the thread would be forgotten! I appreciate your humour, though.

Eekaman - as I pointed out upthread, I work with teenagers and therefore was unwilling to look online as I may stray into child protection areas accidentally. My laptop is the property of my employer, so I really don't want that kind of search history on it.

Thanks again to all contributors.

My laptop is the property of my employer, so I really don't want that kind of search history on it.

Oh come on! Just go to an internet cafe and pick a computer with a wall behind it.

Or get a computer for home.

It's not that difficult.