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Snooping is always a bad idea isn't it?

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SnoopySnooper · 03/01/2015 22:06

I know, I know Facebook drama is tedious. I'm not sure where the urge comes from that makes me think it's a good idea to occasionally browse DP's exes Facebook pages, pure nosiness I guess. I'm at home alone tonight and did it for the first time in more than a year, amongst generally having a bit of a Facebook nose of other old friends/exes of my own. I landed up on his most recent ex girlfriends profile and noticed he'd liked and commented on a New Year's Eve picture of her that just said 'Jesus.' I guess in a 'god you look great!' Kind of way. I'm surprised by how rubbish it's made me feel actually, and just wanted feedback if it would bother other people? Or I'm being an idiot twice over for snooping and being hurt by it.

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SnoopySnooper · 03/01/2015 23:38

I guess I'd feel embarrassed at the snooping. There's no real explanation required for the comment. It has made me question though if he's commenting to other girls who I don't know about though.

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FelicityGubbins · 03/01/2015 23:45

If the shoe was on the other foot and your DP was now questioning your commitment and behaviour because of a comment you made on facebook, would you want him to ask you about it and give you chance to reassure him, or would it annoy you that he dared read the comment in the first place?

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