Do I go or not?

[Confusedaboutdate]

Arranged to meet up with old friend in London this weekend. Going to a show then stay in hotel (twin beds). Bit of history he was once married to a friend of mine, he always made me laugh and is a lovely man.
Since agreeing to go he is messaging telling me I am his unrequited love, how romantic it will be this weekend etc. I am now having second thoughts about going. I was looking forward to seeing him and having a much needed laugh but it has all turned a little unpleasant.
I have been clear that although single I have no interest in him romantically but am I being unfair arranging to meet him?
I am not sure what i am scared of exactly, I am sure I would be safe but a fun couple of days with a friend has turned into something else entirely.
Am I over thinking this or am I being a bitch to him knowing how I feel?

No way I'd share a hotel room with anyone saying that sort of thing to me if I wasn't interested in them that way.

Nope i wouldnt go. He's made it clear he wants more.

No, you shouldn't go.

Thank you for the replies ladies I thought the same, feel bad for cancelling and can think of no real reason to give apart from I feel uncomfortable. Thanks for the responses :)

Well, being blunt, I imagine you're worried he might try to have sex with you and have piss poor boundaries.

Beautifully put LineRunner exactly what I am scared of, I am sure it would not be the case and he would be a gentleman but...

I don't think you are sure, though.

You need to trust your instinct

Read your OP again. You say you are 'sure' but you do also use the words 'romantic' and 'scared'. So you are fearful of the unwelcome lunge I reckon, whether it be 'just' a hug, kiss, or more.

Is this because it would be embarrassing? Or do you have further worries? I think you need to articulate these, tbh.

To be totally honest I'd be terrified he'd spike my drink or something, no way would I share a hotel room with him.

I have cancelled and I feel much better, I was ok with the arrangement as we are good friends but the messages have made me feel uncomfortable.
Thank you all for your replies :)