As I expect I won't make it to anywhere near midnight, I want to thank all of you wonderful women (and couple of blokes) who've supported me through the worst year of my life.
I've started lots of threads, lurked and commented on many more but the wisdom and kindness have meant a lot and helped me through, and those who've also needed help during shitty year.
So raising a glass to Cogito, wellwhoknew, snowflake and lots more. 
May we all have a good 2015.
So soppy bit done, here's my hopes and wishes for 2015...
Swift divorce and decent settlement but mainly not being Mrs confused anymore... Hallelujah!
A proper home for me and ds, with new memories to be made there.
Doing ok in my job.
Ds starting school and being happy there.
And if not a new relationship, perhaps just some good sex to remind me I am in fact a woman and it all still works, lol!
Share yours if you feel inclined. I have a lot of hope which is more than I had a year ago.