Can't sleep as so fed up of mils shit

[Allingoodfaith]

Feel flat like a saggy balloon.
There is a huge back story. Four years worth of arseholish and bullying behaviour. Normally I have just STFU and 'forgot' what she has done/said but I can't this time. It's not even massive like the other times.

Had the perfect oppertuinity to go NC and dp backed me up with not having her at the house till she apologised (which she never would and I was banking on it )

What I didn't bank on was me caving in Boxing Day because I felt sorry for dp as we were having a family get together and he felt in a bad position.

So she came made a big show of kissing me (after screaming and ranting about me the week before) she asked me if every one had told me about how much she cried when she opened my present

She has been round every fucking night since day on my couch feet up playing happy families while yet again I STFU and take her unhinged behaviour.

I couldn't even cuddle dp tonight. He keeps asking whats on my mind I feel like I've lost my moment or I'm weak now as I've let her walk all over me again.

I could actually leave over this woman

You and dp need to decide together what you will accept, and then tell Mil together - and then don't back down.

You could phrase it in terms of Christmas being over now, you need to get back into routine with daughter / work / house, so no unannounced visits and you'll invite her over when you're hosting family.

If she turns up banging on the door, ignore. If she becomes abusive or threatening, call the police.

I have to agree.. if she comes to the door and you do not answer it, she then bangs on the door, you ring police. Very simple. She's got no reason to stand out there banging on the door.