I have recently started seeing a new bloke and so far things seem to be going ok. I have a few trust issues relating to a past relationship but nb (new bloke) is always where he says he is etc so no worries as of yet.
He told me the name of his exdp this weekend as he was talking about their children they have together. I have now looked her up on fb (I know, I know) and it all seemed to add up until I read some of the comments on her page.
One of them is from him commenting on a photo of her where other people have said she looks nice etc, he said something along the lines of 'don't trust her she's everyones'. She replied to tell him where to go calling him a woman beating rapist!!
I am now sitting here feeling a bit sick and wondering if I have got him completely wrong? They were together from a young age, late teens and had a child young as well so I thought back to the dp's I had at that age and they were far from perfect and one could also be accused of being a woman beater although I am under the impression he has changed a lot since. I am not trying to excuse either man's behaviour but trying to relate it to my own experience where I know I wasn't blameless.
Basically I have no one in rl to ask their opinion on nb as I haven't introduced him to any of my friends yet and he hasn't been to my house as I am in a different village to him. Should I ask him about it or cut off all contact? I really don't know what to do.
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singingbasket · 28/12/2014 18:56
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