Feeling a bit depressed tonight as wondering how can make tomorrow a good day for the kids when my OCD, hate hyper kids, grumpy husband is around. Had a lovely afternoon as he was at work so kids were allowed to be excited they were still excited when he came home but he put a stop to it by nagging and shouting that the house was a mess and the kids too loud. We went for a lovely walk to look At the christmas lights then home for hot chocolate and cake but unfortunately my son decided to pick the icing off his cake and this doesn't sit right with his OCD perfectionist father - granted he knows it winds him up so my son sort of did it on purpose- obviously the shit hit the fan and my husband flipped out at him - he called him a horrible disobedient boy for ruining his Christmas as he tried so hard to enjoy family time and his shocking behaviour ruined it yet again!! I know I obviously need to end the relationship but don't have the guts to do it. So how can I make tomorrow fun for the kids - I hope he goes out to visit his grandad at the hectic times - as makes it so much easier but he likes to try and last the day!!