Ok, so I need to get this out of my head and see it in black and white.
4 months ago I started a new job, which I love and the people are lovely to, genuinely nice and enthusiastic, which was a bit of a change for me going from a really depressed de-motivated team, anyway, a couple of weeks after I started a new guy joined the team as an interim, he leaves at the end of January, he is lovely and I have developed a massive crush on him! I know he is single, so I could act on it but I dont want to make a fool of myself
Sometimes I get the feeling he likes me as well, for example, when I go to the coffee shop in the building where we work, he comes with me (he doesnt when anyone else goes) , or when I just hand something to him or he hands me something our hands touch, and the touch seems to last a bit longer than it should (I know I sound like a soppy teenager!) at first I thought it was me maybe instigating the touch but I have sort of tested it out a couple of times and it is definitely him! He even tried to get us stuck in the lift together once (random I know!). He has tried to get me to join him in his out of work activities, volunteering and stuff, again, I dont know if he just wants free help!
But how do I tell him/let him know I like him without embarrassing myself, or how can I get him to give me a sign bigger than the small hand touches/finger brushing? It has been 7 years since my last (and only!) relationship ended and there has been no one! (I think I might end up a lonely spinster!)
Feel free to tell me to man up!