So my friend has been in a LDR for the past year with a man that lives in Canada. He's a bipolar stay at home dad with no money and who won't be over here for a very long time aside from the fact hell have to leave his daughter. WHAT A CATCH EH! it is driving me insane because she constantly comes to me crying about it. i don't even know what to say half the time. I feel so sorry for his wife, they call her a cunt and he says how psycho she is even though he's probably made her that way. he's a disaster waiting to happen and won't seek any help from the doctors for his bipolar.
I am moving in with her soon and Im almost dreading this aspect of it although we get on amazingly well. he is worried about me moving in with her because im a lesbian and well that must mean I want to shag every woman i come into contact with especially her.
She is completely codependent and worries about his feelings constantly. She used to be happy but says she has no regrets as she loves him...
Were having a works do on saturday and she says he is worried about her going out. Her and i can't even go see a film without him saying, "is the film done yet?" Its always about him. Even when she's sad hell turn it into how he's feeling. Im slowly losing respect for her. I feel if she wants to go down that route go for it. can someone please give me some perspective on this situation its getting to be more than I can bear! What do I say to my friend when she comes to me with all this?