Long story short been with oh 2 years prob with oh ex, had to get an injunction out on oh ex for harassment, prob with oh seeing his kids his ex won't let him. Had court over it got contact order she still refusing.
He has/had gambling prob I took control of finances. Since being with oh I don't see much of my friends, get smothered by him constant texts throughout the day. Very needy!
Friends have seen a difference in me best friend says I haven't been happy for a while, had plenty of rows I've stuck by him and given him chance after chance and he says sorry things will change last row we had got heated he smashed a glass against the wall and when I got him out put his fist through the glass panel of the front door. He went to my parents instead of spending night in the cell. ( daughter was not here but at her dads)
Parents obv not happy it's now causing issues between my family and I. Im not on the pill and currently not come on I don't feel like getting excited by the fact I could be pregnant because I'm not sure I look at him in the same way anymore or if it's just because I'm still mad about the fight.
He does nothing for me, we use to go out all the time now don't. Can't remember the last time I was brought flowers. I've done things to cheer him up about not seeing kids etc by cooking favourite meal romantic nights in sometimes get a thank you but guarantee the washing up is left.
Literally have to go on strike and tell him to help out around the house then that's when he does. Oh and to top it off my brand new carpet I'm still paying for he has burnt with an iron trying to get wax up he spilt! I don't know if I can take much more.
I feel miserable right now. I don't feel like a chemistry between us. We're hardly intimate (that's why I will be surprised if I am pregnant) what would you do?
He keeps saying things will get better but when?!! I have my own daughter who is 4 to think about too!