Is my husband cheating?

[MumL11]

So, honest opinions please. My gut instinct says he is but want to get some feedback.

He was out last night, I get up with kids. Text on phone he left downstairs. Him "where are you". Other person "I text you" then "sorry I couldn't get away x".

Looked at call log and he's rang this person 21 times straight after another (obv not replying).

I rang it from his phone, eventually answered but hung up straight away without saying a word.

He's still in bed. Waiting til he gets up to confront him. Scared as if my feelings are right, the minute I confront him there is no going back. If I dont I can pretend I haven't seen this.

Help x

So who was it?

I'm inclined to think that any question that sounds like, "is my husband cheating?" can usually be answered with, "yes".

Would love to hear that this isn't always the case...

who was it?

OP hide the phone before he wakes up. Deny all knowledge. You may need to look a bit further and if he gets the phone he will delete all evidence.

I would take a perverse pleasure in the OP never returning to this thread and keeping us all hanging.

Oh god. Good luck OP.

Why Vivacia? OP came for advice and the suggestion about putting the phone number in fb has served her purpose. She has no need to return, unless she wants further advice. Why would you take pleasure in that?

Hope you're ok L11.

I really hope it was all innocent op.

Hope everything is okay?

At the risk of sounding like an I.T numpty..... Where do you put the number in on Facebook? Is it just in the search bar? ??

Why would you take pleasure in that?

For all of the same things you talk about. This is an advice board, she got the advice she needed. She doesn't owe us anything, yet I'm sure I'm not the only one secretly wanting to know who the number belongs to.

I would just like to hear it was innocent. My faith in men is currently being eroded on an almost daily basis. It would make a refreshing change!

Doh! Sorry- just re- read the Facebook post advice..

Vivacia

I would bet its not someone legit though otherwise I would have thought OP would have said that when she found out, like nothing to worry about thank fuck.
However I do hope all is ok and it is legit.

Word of warning re the Facebook phone number thing. It's not an exact science. If the person hasn't entered their phone number you get a random page.
For example, DD has got her number listed and entering it leads to her profile, I don't have mine listed and entering that leads me to some random woman. I tried this with DH as well who also doesn't have his number on their and again a random page appeared.

Hope you're ok Op.

Hope you are ok x

Yes I agree with sistersofpercy I've just put in both mine and my husbands mobiles and it has led to 2 random people (my husband isn't on fb and i am but haven't put my mobile) so please don't panic until you are absolutely sure

Thinking of you op

I've just checked FB - entering my DHs number takes you to his profile, but my number doesn't take you to me & both are registered. Not sure what that means, other than it's not an exact science I guess. Hope you're ok.

Do you know who the person is (or have heard of them) so know for sure it's correct?

Have you confronted him? Hope you're okay!

So OP have you resolved this? hope it was innocent...