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Relationships

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Relationship is over

4 replies

purpleme12 · 07/12/2014 15:30

Our relationship is shit. All that happens is I get mad now and we argue and I can't seem to make him realise it's fucking over he refuses it is and he says he's staying. we both rent this house how do I get him out I can't put up with this anymore

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CogitOIOIO · 07/12/2014 15:40

Can you fill in some of the blanks? Are you married? Have children? Been together long? You say you argue... is there abusive behaviour involved?

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purpleme12 · 07/12/2014 15:47

no we're not. got a little girl. been together 6 yearsi think. no there isn't. I have had it up to here

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CogitOIOIO · 07/12/2014 16:23

Then the best way to break the stalemate may be to give notice to your landlord (housing association?) that you're ending your involvement in the rental agreement and then get a place of your own. If he's not taking this seriously you'll have to take the initiative

JimmyChoosChimichanga · 07/12/2014 19:30

Speak to the LL and ask if you can end the lease and re-take it on your own? I am a LL and I did just this when my tenant was in your situation. It's worth a punt. How long has the lease got to run?

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