Baby no.3 is due 06/12 and I've been measuring 5weeks ahead since 32 weeks. All the baby clothes are in loft and due to being the size of an airship and being a fat cow I'm too heavy/too large to get into the loft. I am actually over the weight limit for the ladders. I've just finished annual leave and start maternity leave on Saturday after working full time as a ward nurse. So I am shattered.
I've been asking DH to get the baby bits down now for over 6 weeks and they still aren't down, he got the Xmas tree and decorations and the 6-12month child clothes down but not the 0-3months/Moses basket/new born bits ie the bits I will actually need.
He works less than 20 hours a week and all we do is argue because I want to have the bags packed for hospital and still need to wash and dry the baby clothes. Apparently I'm not giving him time to himself/to do what he wants.
If I'm honest this is the latest thing in a long and ever growing list of things that I'm pissed of about.
I had to miss my friends leaving party (worked with her for 4years)as we didn't have money apparently but he was able to go out drinking with his mates.
Missed my bosses leaving meal as he wanted me to move all my shifts that week around, despite my shifts being done a month in advance, because he needed to cover a shift at work. So I was to tired to go to the meal after a 12 hour shift and then do another 12hour shift the following day.
Now he told me that is works Xmas meal is on our due date which he is going to, I know baby won't arrive on due date but I'm getting tired of this.
He lies to me under the pretense of "not wanting to stress me out" We haven't seen his step-m and df for 2.5 years since they took dc1 for a weekend trip and lied about where they were taking her. They told us that they were going to visit a household relative who hadn't met dc1but in fact they took her too see family who we are nc with for various reasons. OH then got dc1 to lie to me for weeks about what she did and who she saw. No apology from the in laws.
Well in laws got in contact, I asked OH if them visiting could wait until after dc3 arrives as I'm struggling at the moment and I'm facing a difficult delivery (vaginal birth after two c-sections) so lots of appointments and meetings to get to attempt a normal delivery.
The next thing I know he is making arrangements for last week and when I objected it ended up in a three day row where he lied to my face multiple times.