My stbxh bleats on about spending quality time with his son, but just about has enough patience to spend an hour with him.
The most he can do is take him to the movies, he does nothing that requires an effort. Nothing practical, physical.
He never sees him during the week, makes a huge deal about kissing him goodnight though.
He sleeps a lot over weekend, getting up at midday- and has no desire to do anything except maybe eat.
So, he's always moaning about quality time, but never actually does anything about it. This weekend we had a showdown about 'his son' because my sister was here and she obviously wanted to spend time with ds. All for show. He does whatever he wants for himself.
So, I discovered that on one of his precious weekends, instead of going to a rugby game like he told me, he had a romantic weekend away with OW, who he has consistently lied about. Abroad, on a plane!
So his son was so important to him that he arranged a weekend away, coming in at 8pm on Sunday night, so just as ds was going to bed.
I want to call him on it, I'm sick of him whingeing on about how he just wants to spend time with him.
But I also want a quiet life, and detach as much as possible
Do I just file it away for future ammo?
He's still living at home btw, hopefully sorted by NY