DH walked out. what do I do now?

[Whatnext15]

Things have been difficult for a while. DH struggled with the demands of the children (one DS of them them is severely autistic with learning difficulties.

I struggled with the kids, keeping down a job, household, close to break down - no help from anybody (no family around, soon respite etc ). So all in all pretty tough.

Anyhow, this morning, after another petty argument, he just walked out at 8. He has not come back. He left his phone at home. H does not have any friends, he has now family nearby.

The kids are going crazy because daddy is not here. have no idea where he went, when ( or indeed if) he will be back.

What the heck to I do now? Getting concerned

Oops. Sorry op. Hope things get better for you soon.

He has probably gone off to a friend. Can you ring the most likely one?

I won't talk to him now.

You need to talk at some point.

Crossed posts - kick his arse

Will.talk tomorrow. Too livid right now. Still trying to calm the DC.

DH has no friends. Not a single friend.

Good luck x

Oh I see. Does he look ok?

haven't looked at him. upstairs with the kids.

Will talk tomorrow

I think that's a good plan.

In my opinion, it's ok for him to want some time alone. It's not ok for it to be with no warning, no agreement and no support for you.

He gets plenty of me time... he is a sport freak and spends 2h exercise every fucking day. It is me who never gets time to hetself. Anyhow , thanks for calming me down while waiting. Will try to get some sleep now up since 4 am (DS with asd). Knackered

Hoping things are looking better today for you x