We just don't have sex...

[Elfina]

I love DH and I believe he loves me. I fancy him, and he me. We both work full time and I have a long commute. DD two, but since having her we've had sex about 5 times.

We co-sleep with her, which doesn't help. I find propositioning DH on the sofa embarrassing! Plus by the time she's in bed we're both knackerd.

Is there a way round this?

Put the 2yo in her own bed ?

Like AF says, put her in her own bed?

At 2 she shouldn't still be in your bed

Stick her in her own bed even if you have to have it in your room for a couple of weeks to start with until she gets used to it

Yep, she needs her own bed.

As an aside, sex on the sofa can be fun-unsure what you find embarrassing about it, I've propositioned DH in stranger places...

I think it's because I have a few body issues who doesn't and I'm an under the duvet type of woman...

You said it-who doesn't? Working past that will help your sex life too. No body is perfect-be pretty dull if you were.

In that case sofa with lights out and tv left on just to give a little background lighting