I need to hear from someone about this because this he been constant through our relationship. Whenever we argue about something by the end of it I'm usually a basket case, mentally wrong, bipolar, nutcase, got emotional problems etc. it happens very single time and despite me knowing that I'm not these things by the end of the argument I'm always distraught by his words. They really affect me and I sob for hours. I'm sobbing now. I know our marriage is over but I can't leave right now because I'm pregnant and circumstances are just not right, money place to live etc. plus I have other children too. How can I deal with it, I tell myself that I won't let it get to me but it does and his words leave wounds. This morning was because we have a tight schedule in the morning getting the kids out to school and somehow me and the kids overslept yet he was up so I complained as to why he didn't wake us. It's not the first time thus has happened I may add that we've overslept - not on school run - but that a certain someone didn't think k to wake up - happened once before at least. But I've noticed a pattern, I get a complete character assassination and onslaught.