do you remember dh had some girl chasing him?

[misdee]

his ex girlfriend from when he was 16.

well she is pregnant. high risk pregnancy. she has started texting dh for support again.

utterly confused.

dont blame you for being confused..why text your dh over her pregnancy obviously with someone else???? bizarre

she is severely epileptic, and her dh is an arse.

i want to wish her well in her pregnancy, and hope to god, that she realises that she cant rely on my dh, who is ill himself and needs 24 hour care, to emotionally support her.

thats it does she not know how peter is???? If she does then she is very selfish

Couldn't your dh's phone just meet with an accident, and have to have a new number or something.

From what I recall, this woman sounded a little high strung didn't she, with her very own version of what real life was.

What does Peter think of this???

she does. but i dont think she grasps the severeity of his condition.

Peter has relied heavily on supportive texts from his friends when he was in hospital, but now she seems to be leaning too much on him. i dont know much about her, but it seems she is lonely, and i na destructive marriage from her texts.

i have never even met her.

he sort of groaned when he got the text. he hasnt heard from her in months, the last time was when she had stormed out and was sat in a pub garden at midnight

if she wasnt pregnant i would get her number and give her a good talking to.

in some ways i feel very sorry for her, and i know there is a big history between dh and her, but fgs woman, he is seriously ill.

but he wants to be a good friend.

i hope to god her baby is ok, she will have to go into hospital for a lonjg long stay of bed rest due to her epilepsy. not sure if i want to accompny peter to visit her. how many excuses do you think we can come up with?

You only need the one misdee and stick to it - 'sorry, Peter is not up to hospital visiting due to his own health.'

You have enough on your plate, don't get involved. xx

I think pg or not, you should give her a talking to! She's pg, not ill! And it's terribly selfish of her imo.

Call the number and gently explain that Peter is unwell and doesn not need her high drama. In other words, tell her to get someone else she can rely on and cry to, your dh doesn't need this shit, and neither do you!

i agree. you should call her and say

"what great news that your pregnant, im sure you and YOUR dh are really happy. can i just ask you not to text Peter for a little while, he is trying a new treatment and its really knocking him for 6 right now, plus what with our own 3 children its a really stressfull time right now. i know your just trying to be supportive but he really needs to relax right now. thanks"

be so nice she can't possibly say no.
then if she does call again you can be a little more stern and tell her to Feck off!

thanks. was thought i was being all drama queen about it.