I've been dumped and I can't stop crying.

[MacabreMe23]

I know it's pathetic and I should look to future blahbalh. The fact is I'm devastated. it happened on friday, we have only been together two months but I have fallen in love with him. He said he felt the same but he has decided he sint ready for a relationship right now.

he is 19 I'm 24 and I was concerned about how he would cope in an adult relationship, with me having dd (16months) and not having any suport network so no babYsitter etc..

but I thought we would make it

maybe not

How are things going? x

we broke up tonight
it was mostly initiated by me. as he was constantly having a go at me. Thorwing tantrums etc.. he can't deal with the restrictions on my life that dd brings.
I was trying to make things easier by advertising for babysitter etc.
But i cant win.

hope things have worked out for u. men huh? they can be great when they want but when things don't.... feel free to moan hun thats why we are here

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Relationships are about a bit of give and take and if he wants you, then hes got to want DD too IMO. Someone else will come along when you least expect it, hes obviously not the one for you. x

I'm ok,dissapointed I thought we had something, but I can't spend everYday feeling bad because he wants to go out more etc,,,
I've come to see he needs a girl his own age wihtout kids.

Sorry you are so upset Macabre but tbh, I would be very surprised if many people could make a go of this situation. At 19, your ex-bf is very much a boy and you are 5 years older with the responsibility of bringing up your daughter. Of course she will come first in your life. Of course he will resent it. Try to remember the fun times you had and move on. Its awful now but in a couple of months, who knows where you could be, who you could meet. Hopefully someone much more suited to you and your dd. xx