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Pof on iPhone history?

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3lovelykids · 23/11/2014 12:48

Found Pof on dh iPhone history. Has form for visiting porn sites such as xhamster knowing full well my disgust at this. Swears it won't happen again etc. He swears blind he hasn't been on there. Can it magically appear by itself? Although I know it can't Confused can anyone reassure me. Thanks

OP posts:
Only1scoop · 23/11/2014 18:39

It's nothing to do with phones Op as you are well aware.

3lovelykids · 23/11/2014 19:51

Once his new phone is in use and if anything dodgy appears on it then it's game over. I will then be sure it's him although I know it is. What a shit situation. Thanks for taking the time to reply .

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IsabeauMichelle · 24/11/2014 08:42

So you're going to just leave it until the NEXT time he does it?

NeitherHereOrThere · 24/11/2014 08:50

Make sure you check the old phone as well in case he uses this for porn and arranging POF meet ups.

What is his behaviour at home like?

AnyFucker · 24/11/2014 08:50

He will be more careful next time or even use a secret phone

You know he is dodgy, but yet you sweep it under the carpet ?

Good luck with that Sad

McSqueezy · 24/11/2014 09:40

Well if he visited POF, he was probably having a browse to see what was on offer. Perhaps he went no further than that, but of course the point is that the intention was there.

You need to be very careful from this point onwards, because he will probably cover his tracks more carefully now. He is being deceitful, and do not be foolish enough to believe that a new phone will solve matters.

IslaMann · 24/11/2014 09:51

I've just checked my mobile data using the method you described upthread. There are lots of sites on there that I definitely haven't visited,including loads of porn ones. (I have visited 'you porn' but that's all) Vases on this, I'd say it's possible he is telling the truth that he hasn't looked at POF but that it's therefore likely he's certainly visited some other dating/porn sites that has then left this footprint. Sorry OP.

IslaMann · 24/11/2014 09:52

Vases should read based.

BadLad · 24/11/2014 10:19

It's on my history, but that's because people of other fora I visit have asked for people to look at and comment on their profile. I would be surprised if it could magically appear by itself.

rockup · 24/11/2014 10:24

I wouldn't read too much into thhis at this time. It could be completely accidental or it could be curiosity. Maybe it might be let him wise to know that we should think about the consequences of what he does. It should be enough to give him the messager and make him think twice.

Jan45 · 24/11/2014 11:59

Bad enough he's looking at extreme porn sites but also is on POF, well known for being full of married or attached men - please don't sweep it under again, it amazes me that women seem to think they have to accept shit behaviour like this. Apart from anything else, how can you respect him.

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