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My sister kicked me

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emmalouise1091 · 22/11/2014 16:32

I am currently 32 weeks pregnant and living at home with my mum and sister. My sister is 19 and always been rather violent. We were arguing and I called her a bitch and then she threw a bottle at me. I walked away and then she kicked me straight in the back. If I hadn't turned away I'm sure it would have been in my stomach.

I told my mum what had happened and she lied saying she didn't do it. She carried on denying it for about half an hour then finally admitted it.

I'm fuming and have said I want to move out but my mum is in pieces begging me not to go. I know this is so childish and it should never have happened, were not 10 anymore.

Basically what am I meant to do now? How can I trust her to be around my baby, yet I don't want to leave and break my mums heart.

OP posts:
NettleTea · 22/11/2014 20:23

And IS she going to pay the money back? you are going to need it for the baby

Meerka · 22/11/2014 20:54

You need to report this to the police as domestic violence.

It's appalling that someone would kick you in the back when you are 32 weeks preg - absolutely appalling.

Your sister needs to be brought up sharp that her behaviour is absolutely unacceptable.

Most of all you need to protect your baby.

Your mother is doing you no favours by asking you to stay under the roof of someone who would do your baby harm. Nor is she doing your sister any favours by covering up this appalling behaviour.

Im sorry, but it's time to become a full adult and to draw your lines. It is very, very hard times.

Your mother can be involved heavily in the care of her grandchild if you move out but first that grandchild has to be born. It's not a guarenteed situation if your sister is willing to damage you in the stomach, as you are sure that she would be.

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