Hi, I'm a guy in a relationship of three months and me and my girlfriend have recently run into the issue that we every time we have sex it hurts afterward for her. Having recently gone through that honeymoon stage of jumping each others bones whenever we had the chance, we now find ourselves having sex maybe once a week. Whilst sex is by no means the only part of the relationship, I feel it should be a fairly important one. She frequents these forums and passes a few links on to me, many being enlightening and amusing. So I thought a few of those opinions may help here? Medically I'm almost certain there's nothing wrong with either of us and she puts it down to the fact she "tenses up" because in the previously mentioned honeymoon phase we did get to a point where it hurt because of a UTI, promptly gave it a rest for a few days, got some antibiotics and it was all fine. Now she seems to expect it to hurt and puts it down to that? I would be very grateful if anyone may have experienced similar issues with a partner?