I posted a reverse thread a few weeks ago asking about wether or not I was right to keep dcs away from their dad (I know it's not right) there's a lot of history.
I broke up with exdp just over a year ago as he was cheating on me with God knows how many women after I found out he left and is now living with one of the women he was cheating with this was its been extremely hard for me to forgive him for leaving in the way he did not only that but he treated me as though I was the one who done it to him.
Anyway he has never been the greatest of dads and has never really supported me emotionally or financially choosing to go out partying buy new clothes and generally living the high life leaving me to do everything.
two months ago ds was in hospital with a serious eye infection doctors thought he may lose his sight and affect his brain I had been up the hospital for 36 hours without any sleep when he came up in the evening I left to take dts2 home and clean myself up eat and get a few hours sleep before going back up there I had only been gone two hours when he stated txting me that basically a bitch for leaving him to look after him and that if I didn't get back soon he would leave ds on his own so I told him to fuck off and leave us all Alone as I have had enough of doing everything on my own.
We haven't spoke to each other and he hadn't seen dcs since until today I went to his mums to visit her I didn't want to be there as he lives there with other woman and it was very uncomfortable just being there we sat down and try to have a conversation about everything and all he does is blame me saying I'm bitter and should get over him cheating leaving me which is the reason he doesn't have a good relationship with dcs because I don't want him around me as it hurts to much I do want him to be in the dcs life as they adore him.
He's trying to turn everything into me and still not taking any responsibility for his own actions so I've left in floods of tears as I really cannot take anymore and he's gone out with his friends where do I go from here?
Sorry it's long just need to get it all out.