Whats with these comments?

[moonshine123]

Ok, I have posted before about the lack of trust in my marriage in that my H I believe does not trust me.
He accused me of having an affair in the Summer with with a male collegue, which there is no truth in. He feels a man and woman can not be friends.
He smokes a lot of cannabis daily and does not work, I support our whole household in every way.
I have been treating myself to new clothes for work and he has been saying " you look nice, almost like you are heading out rather than work", or in the mornings, " are you sure its work you are going to" making a joke out of it.
TBH I am tired of this marriage now, I feel like im moving on and he isn't, maybe it is me taking things the wrong way x

No wonder he thinks you're looking elsewhere, he's probably wondering why the hell you're still with him like the rest of us. Sounds like he needs a kick up the arse!

One problem is that it isn't only the free loader who needs a kick up the arse. Moonshine is really having a number done on her but she needs to wake up and see what she has been doing.

Moonshine, as others have said, you are facilitating the low-life smoking weed which is condoning it.

Ha she got a cushy life or what?

And not a good example for your little one.

has he, not ha she

He clearly realises he's got himself in a dump, and in a rut, and that he is lucky you are still there. (but may not know how to fix that)

So it's turned into jealousy and suspicion.

And the weed will not be helping that kind of attitude.

If he wants to be a better person and you still love him - help. If he doesn't and he's always been a lazy weed smoking scrounger, then leave him, and do as he suspects, which is find something better.

Moonshine, pretty much all the threads you've started on MN are about your jealous, lazy, weed addicted husband and all the problems he causes within your marriage. What does this tell you...?

How much longer are you going to keep this freeloader around?

So you earn all the money, and also do shopping, laundry and cleaning and organise school events and appointments etc? So what exactly does he do, besides sitting on his arse, smoking weed and accusing you of cheating? Does he actually add anything to your life?