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Dh turned down sex.

30 replies

PiperIsOrangePumpkins · 03/11/2014 01:13

I feel so rejected.

I have anxiety and depression so this was a big step for me.

I had a long soak in the bath. Shaved my legs and pits. Also did my pubic hair. I got dressed in my sexy underwear and straighten my hair and put on a little makeup.

I know the last few months my sex drive has been no go and I really put the effort in.

I'm now got major anxiety of what I did wrong.

OP posts:
patronisingbitchinthewardrobe · 04/11/2014 20:30

venue? opportunity? fill in a word that makes more sense.

PiperIsOrangePumpkins · 04/11/2014 20:30

I'm on antidepressants and also tablets that I take if I really can't cope any longer.

I'm also on the waiting list to see a counsellor.

OP posts:
PiperIsOrangePumpkins · 04/11/2014 20:34

DH would never use sex as a weapon. He has been my rock for the last few years I have suffering with MH.

To the point that when it got so bad, he encouraged me to go the doctor.

OP posts:
saintsandpoets · 04/11/2014 20:36

the OH has a perfect venue for demonstrating his resentment.

Or he just didn't fancy a shag.

WineWineWine · 04/11/2014 21:06

Regardless of the OP's fragile state, her DH has the right to not be in the mood for sex and there is nothing worse than someone going through the motions when they are not into it!
OP, I'm sure it will be a lot better when you are both in the mood.

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