How do I stop missing him?

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We've only been split up a day, after 4 years together, but it seems like a year. I actually went to see him earlier just bcos I felt so bad, and he was cold and distant and told me to go away. Even though I know we have differences which mean we can't ever be together, I am desperate not to be without him. Please, does anyone know how I can stop feeling like this?

im definitely better off without him roundafew as woke up to a text off him this morning telling me what a great time he had at a friends party last night

Certainly do! Been there! Got the T shirt and it's now in the bin!

Great that you got out and did something physical . That always gets the feel good endorphins going. I cannot think of anything better.

Soup is good too.

Do you know what?
You're going to be just fine.

We are all rooting for you.
Weekends are the worst. You imagine everyone is enjoying cosy coupledom and it's not like that at all.

Maybe there are some groups you could join that meet at weekends. Rambling groups. Some sort of activity.

When I was doing bereavement counselling a lovely lady came to me. She was mid fifties but didn't look it. Husband died suddenly of a heart attack.

I was over the moon when she joined a rambling group and even more so when she met her future partner.

Don't forget. Start that journal. 6 months from now you will be surprised at how much progress you have made.

Did he leave your house? Try and make your house your own again- make it your lovely haven you want tp luxuriate in by yourself without some irritating bloke underfoot

Good morning round a few blocks.

I hope you had a better night's sleep and you are rushing to get off to work this morNing.

Hope all goes well.
I had a little thought ...this is how it goes...I think you said you couldn't really confide in anyone in RL so I was worried that you might feel a bit embarrassed to keep posting here.

Well if that's the case, please don't feel embarrassed. Post as much as you like. Wring every last drop of emotional feeling out on here. Anything that helps you with NC.

Apologies if this post does not help but was just a thought.

Onwards and upwards.