Hiya
Just after a bit of advice really, my whole family is out of their mind with worry.
The last time we seen my brother was over christmas, he moved in with his very young, controlling girlf shortly after, she already has a son, and from what we have been told they lost a baby to mc just before christmas.
They have moved from salisbury to basingstoke back in february this year, that was the last anyone has heard from him, he rung my mum previous to his brithday in feb, she sent his card to my dads (who lives in salisbury) he had his birthday money and didnt even say thanks! He didn't give noone his new address, the only phone number we have is a mobile, which is always turned off, me and my mum try it regularly. As far as we are aware he is still working for the same decoraitng company he worked for, although there is doubt in this. We have contacted them and they told us they couldnt tell us anything, we knew it was a long shot anyhow.
He still up until recently had all his bank statements and post go to my dads. My dad discovered a few speeding fines, so he has likely to have lost his licence anyway. He had a car on finance before he met this girl, we have found out by him changing his address to my address, that he is now £3000 in arrears with these, he is/was on good money so could afford the re payments. They have moved in with her dad as far as we know, so they dont have to pay rent or other stuff.
This girl told my sil at christmas she thought she was pregnant again, if she was surely the baby would be here by now and he would want to share this. I am currently 20 weeks pregnant and Im upset and at a loss as to why he would do this, my mum has shed many many tears over him. I dont think he wants to be found, and Im pretty certain he knows hes in alot of trouble with money/debts and the speeding, we dont care about all this, and there is plenty of help to be had if he got in touch, he has my mums phone number/address but doesnt bother. I would love to track him down or at least get a message to him. But where do I start, i cant imagine christmas without him at all
Hes only 23 yrs old, not a baby and is usually so considerate of other people, how can he do this!