husband on wats ap all night

[debrakate12]

My husband is on his wats app all time as soon as I leave the room . 2 hours in Bath. And all night in the dark in his room.I went in at 1.30 sunday and he was under the covers in dark.
We sleep apart I have had a mastectomy and now kidney failure . I think he is having an afair. I feel invisibl he says its nothing to do with me and I am paranoid. He says I dont turn him on with a crap body. Has anyone got a relationship back after surgery. Does anyone think I am overreacting. Or should I believe nothinh is happening ?.

What a tosspot to be so rude & cruel about your body

Wow OP my eyes have filled up just reading your first post.

My first ever LTB. What a vile man.

Please ring WA for advice and support. My heart goes out to you and your dc.

What a discussing example of manhood you have there Debrakate12

What a disgusting man! Hope you are ok. You are immensely strong to have been coping with his abuse so far - but please don't feel that you need to do so any longer. What are your options re. leaving him? I think you need to explore this, if you feel able. To be with someone saying things like this to you will be so damaging to your mental health, I think.

How are you debrakate? I have been thinking of you today x

Omg I can't believe I'm reading this I hope you've taken everyone's advice and have left. My father in law ex wife (no children together)had kidney failure he gave her a kidney that's how real men behave!
Good luck sweetie

deb yes he started dyalisis about 6 weeks ago. Peritoneal. He's doing fine but it's a lot to deal with and the last thing he's need is an abusive partner.

I'm pretty sure you stand somewhere legally but even if not surely a rented flat where you can feel safe and secure is better than how it is now.

My dh is being tested as a donor for ds and he's not even related, agree that is how real men behave.

Please get some advice.

This is awful for you op. Surgery is a tough thing to go through as well as recovery. He should be thinking about your well being not his sexual needs. I have had heart surgery and various catheters and my dh has never said that kind of thing. I would suggest that you tell him to leave if thats what he thinks to give you space to recover.