Hi all,
(Name changed for this, been watching Brian cox 
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I have been seeing someone for about 3 weeks now. We have had sex a few times and it has been really good and enjoyable. He knows that I have never had an orgasm with a partner (only by myself) and that this has been frustrating for me.
I've found it a bit annoying (with previous partners also) that after he comes he doesn't ask whether I have or not, or if I have enjoyed it. I usually ask if it was good for him and I've tried to ask him if there's anything particular he enjoys or want to try because it's really important to me my partner is enjoying it. I'm a bit disappointed he hasn't asked me any of the same things in return. I should add he is a very caring and kind person. Maybe he is just nervous about this kind of thing? He seems confident enough when we are actually doing it.
Am I being unreasonable/precious/needy? I suppose when you've been with somebody a long time it's different, but I haven't had many relationships so I'm not sure - would you expect the man to ask whether you have also come? And if you've enjoyed it?
Suppose it just annoys me a bit that the man comes no matter what and it doesn't seem to matter if the woman does! 