What to do?

[mouseymummy]

My exh and I have been separated for over a year but not yet divorced (it's taking a while) we have 2 dc's together but he's never met the second one as he was arrested and charged with dv during my pregnancy.

He has been toldby social services that he is not allowed contact with our dc.

Tonight it has come to my attention that he is in a new relationship with a 20yo girl who has a child and is pregnant to him.

I'm seriously concerned that the child she has is in danger (he tormented my eldest daughter with the threat of being taken away from me for the slightest reason and towards the end of the relationship was starting to turn on her too)

I'm planning to phone his probation team on Monday as he is still under a supervision order and is meant to report any new relationship to them and phone the social services team in the town he lived in (I only have her name to go on though)

Is there anything else I can do??

Id do my best to remain anonymous when reporting to ss.

I'm not going to give my name or any information that could point to being me that has reported it.

I have a restraining order that lasts until March anyway and as he had broken it (he turned up outside the house, luckily I was away for a few weeks and my neighbours spotted him) it will probably be extended

Clare's law if you know who the girl is and her name. Take care of yourself be safe

I think telling the authorities is where your responsibility ends. Give your name as it will add credence to your statement but ask them to keep your confidence because you fear reprisals. There must be other people in his life - family, friends, work colleagues - who know he is a dangerous man and are saying nothing. Disgusting.