Have been split up from EXDP since just before last Xmas (Fairly amicable, no-one else involved etc) after 10 years and two DC together. They are aged 4 & 8 and live with me full time. We don't have a set agreement for when he sees them, just work it out week to week depending on work etc. He works away so only has them the odd night at weekends (not every weekend)
So he has a new partner (I don't know her at all), who lives near where he works away which is 3hrs drive away. She works in the office that deals with his work. Anyway, he wants to take Dc's to meet her as he is finding it hard to see her and the dc's so would be killing two birds with one stone so to speak. I've said no, it's too soon. They have been together about 6 weeks. I don't have a problem with them meeting her as such, but don't want them to stay at hers for the whole weekend when they have just met her! He says it's serious, they have been friends for a long time. Am I BU? I Admit I am a bit Jealous as I knew he would be the first to move on. She has a 2year old boy too just to complicate things even more. Our 4 year old still comes to my/his bed in the night and I would hate for him to go to 'their' bed and be confused. Am I being selfish?