I could really do with a bit of cheering up

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Annoyed with myself for keeping contact with x (on another thread). He is actually being really nice back and says the reasons why we both know it won't work, and he's absolutely right. I don't want to be with him because of stuff he has done to me. But I just miss him so bad and he was so funny and cheered me up when he wasn't angry!! Anyway, enough about him... i have great stuff planned for this afternoon and evening and staying away tonight [rare for me] but his email this morning made me cry and i want to fecking snap out of it........... any advice.... that doesn't involve thinking of him..... please?

The best stuff to do is something that requires 100% concentration - learning something new and physical - like rock climbing.

I could start with scaling my house :) The sun is coming out now - always helps :)

SElf - how are you going?

Unless you want this daily torture, you must be NC with him unless absolutely necessary. You are prolonging your pain and suffering by still being emotionally attached to him.

You aren't missing him, you are missing the familiar as it keeps the unknown future at bay. Move on and try not to look back unless that's the direction you want to go.