still not sure

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A while ago i posted re my sis new boyfriend. He says he is in middle of divorce but they seem not to be spending christmas together. Hes not really getting divorced is he?...or am i just not wanting her to get hurt again?

Well, that could depend. If it's a new relationship he may have decided previously to spend Christmas with his parents. Or if he has children he may need to visit for their plans.

You can't prevent your sister getting hurt. If she trusts him and is not asking the right questions, she's sure as hell not going to listen to anyone voicing suspicions.

She's a grown woman. I understand that you don't want her getting hurt, but she is the only person who can take action here.

Let her make her own choices, and be there to support her morally if she needs it.

Thanks ladies its helped reading a different persepective or might have opened my big mouth and got into trouble :/. Will let things be..