So I have had to have a biopsy recently for a skin condition. Also a colonscopy where bioposies were take. Dh behaved quite badly re colonoscopy. He refused to take time off work but worked from home instead. Despie knowing that I shouldn't be responsible for young children following procedure. When he came to collect me he decided to go get a blood test and pretty much left me chasing round blood test department after toddler despite having been sedated. Between having the bioposies and getting the results his mum was diagnosed with a very curable form of cancer.
So he had said very little about my bioposies whilst I was waiting go have them. When he did ask I said that the doctors performing the bioposies were confident all was ok.
His response was "thats a relieve I couldn't with both of you having cancer"
I can't help feeling this was a selfish response especially as I hadn't had proper all clear at this stage.
perspective appreciated please