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can i have carte blanche to be a complete cow do you think?

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Flossam · 30/09/2006 10:28

dp went out into town with car last night. came home at 3 this morning minus car. he had an expensive car service yesterda (400+) and is supposed to be spending the weekend decorating ds's room which at last count has taken 4 and a half month. the lining paper is still not even finished. obviously this morning we need to go and collect the car which will take a couple of hours with the other bits we have to do. i can only help in the room when ds is asleep this afternoon doing things like painting as one of my arms is in plaster. last night i spent my evening glossing the skirting board an window frame.

dp is refusing point blank to get up, only tried at 10 - nicely to start with, offering coffe and food, no joy, he was rude and obnoxious and i ended up hitting him with a pillow . i have left ds up there with him to try and wake him up, ds's nappy needs changing - if i'm honest i could manage it, but (not for the faint hearted) i have to click my broken bone back into place when i have finished which is hardly conduscive to healing is it?

i'm sorry for the rant, i just feel dp should think himself lucky he went out at all last night, and he should be glad he enjoyed himself and be prepared to feel a bit shit today but just to get on with it. oh and to add insult to injury he came in and woke both ds and i up, me by leaning over me and putting all his weight on - yup you've guessed it! my bloody broken hand. grrrr.

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auntymandy · 30/09/2006 10:31

I would be in a foul mood!!!

rickman · 30/09/2006 10:34

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Radley · 30/09/2006 10:34

I would get a jug of freezing cold water and throw it at him.

Carmenere · 30/09/2006 10:34

He is very lucky indeed, have you thought about throwing a bucket of cold water over him(or would that just mean you would have to change all the bed clothes?)

WideWebWitch · 30/09/2006 10:35

yep, you can be vile.

Flossam · 30/09/2006 10:35

it would rather mean changing them - or rather having another row with dp about how he should change them - which even with my current rage i'm guessing he won't go along with...

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SauerKraut · 30/09/2006 10:36

I would waltz out of the house and leave him to the whole lot!

Carmenere · 30/09/2006 10:37

Well I would change the nappy, turn cebeebies on and then go out for the day, making sure he knows you are leaving.

PinkTulips · 30/09/2006 10:40

oooooo, that crap gives you permission to be positively evil!

and i thought dp was giving me a hard morning.

have you got any deep heat? smear it on your hand, reach under the covers pretending you want to 'play' and wipe it all over his dick and balls, you'll never see a man move so fast [evil emoticon]

Radley · 30/09/2006 10:41

I agree with the OP, go out for the day, turn your mobile phone off and leave him to deal with it all.

Radley · 30/09/2006 10:41

LOL Pink Tulips, that is evil

kimi · 30/09/2006 11:11

and you only hit him with a pillow, go get the frying pan girl!!!

Flossam · 30/09/2006 15:24

well i went out and purchased paint and thoroughly upset him by painting the room before it is 'ready'. one wall done at least, although being up a ladder (we have high victorian walls) with only one arm wasn't much fun. he made it in there though, stripped off the bits of lining paper he wasn't happy with (ie a quarter of the room) and realised he has run out of lining paper. he is now once again back on his arse.

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