Hi. I'm looking for some advice. Things between my hubby & I have not been right for a while now, I don't like his attitude to me or our kids, he shouts at everything and everyone. He blows everything out of proportion and he has to be always right. For example we went away on holiday, our youngest who is 6 didn't want to go down the water slide, considering his only just learnt to swim I can't say I blame him I said to hubby leave him be he will go down it when his ready. Next thing I know I hear a child screaming I look over to slide to see hubby trying to force our 6 year old down it. I went over and said what are you doing he doesn't want to? To which he replies your always babying him his going to turn out gay! I took hold of our son and said he didn't have to if he didn't want to. My husband then shouts at me in front of everyone saying I always undermine him and he might as well not be with us, he then goes off saying his getting out the pool, but he ends up hiding behind a pillar in the pool Pathetic!
Well after getting back from holiday ( hubby works away for two weeks then home for two). I receive a bouquet of flowers with a note saying his sorry.
Well knowing my hubby he never sends flowers which started me off thinking and I logged into his emails to find nothing, from there I went to Twitter, went into his messages to find his been messaging three women all showing topless or knickers profile pics. Reading through messages there all sexual about what they'd do in bed etc. I wasn't really to shocked as his done it a few years ago before on a dating site he swore he'd never do it again. Well now I've found this, I thought he'd only been doing it recently but there's tweets and messages go back over a year.
I've not confronted him with it yet, I'm not sure what to do anymore, I don't really want to be with him, but don't want to hurt him, but I've really had enough of his attitude the way he talks to me & kids. Just feel so alone and stuck. Help xx