feelings after a row

[anyoldname76]

My dh and I fell out at the weekend, he said something which hurt my feelings and then it has been pretty frosty since. We had words yesterday and sort of made up but now he's coming across with a weird attitude. As though now he thinks he's got the upper hand.
I can't put my finger on it but I know if I mention anything he will turn it around and make out its me being funny with him

Sorry I meant to add, does this sound as though I'm being over sensitive. There is an odd atmosphere but I don't know if its just me over analysing everything

What did he say that hurt your feelings ?

And it is a regular occurrence that he turns everything round on you

How long have you been together/married?

We were out having a meal which is a rarity, he said we should do this more often, I agreed, said it was nice be out together. He then said our usual weekends are so shit, watching a film and having a shitty takeaway, they suck balls. Know I realise we can't get out much as we have children and not much money but I quite enjoy our weekends. Just hurt my feelings a bit that he thinks that.
He turns a lot of stuff around on me, he's so convincing, like now he thinks I shouldn't have been upset over that and now I feel in the wrong for feeling that way

We've been together almost 10 years, had lots of ups and downs over the years.

He sounds an utter delight.

Not.

He sounds like a right misery. How is your relationship generally?

Sounds like this argument has definitely not resolved. Can you talk to him about how you feel later when the kids are in bed?

Just lately things have been a bit rubbish, a feel really self concious about my body and our sex life has suffered. I'm trying lose weight at the mo. I'll talk to him later and see what he says, more than likely he will say I'm imagining it and its all in my head

Saying stuff is "all in your head" is un necessarily cruel and nasty

Does he not like you much ?