I have a narcissistic sister who has spent the past decade trying to destroy my life. We used to be very close until one day I stood up to her and told her I felt her constant digs at me were disrespectful and I have been left reeling in her narcissistic rage ever since. I tried to make the peace with her over and over again but she just continued to punish me and I let her. She ruined my wedding day (a very long story), she ignored me when my first baby was born, she made a relationship with my children and then just dumped them without warning, she has mocked every aspect of my life, to my face and to others. I feel like my whole life has been ripped to bits by her and yet I have tried to hold onto the good in it but she has been like a poison. I have finally gone no contact but I just feel annihilated by her and don't know how to really truly recover. How did I go from the adored sister to being treated like the worst person in the world and the lengths she has gone to in her cruelty have been extreme.