mum in a million again.

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I posted about breaking up with my partner when I caught him cheating with his friends wife (mum in a million)

Well I dumped him and its so hard I miss him. Today I was given an urgent referral to cancer clinic.

I just want him to comfort me. And I feel so sad.

You have every right to be sad. This is a scary time for you. But you don't need a man by your side who cheats and betrays those closest to him.
It's time to call on your friends and family to rally round you now and my friend, who has just been diagnosed with breast cancer, tells me repeatedly how wonderful the Macmillan nurses are.
Be strong and lean on your MN friends for some support. X

Sorry to hear this.

Hard as it is long term it is much easier to cope with the worst (touch wood it's not) without a cheating git in your life.

He doesn't deserve to get to support someone as special as you,. I kicked my Ex out after he shagged a close friend. The then went though a health nightmare diagnosis of several autoimmune condition, investigation, diagnosis and treatment of precancerous breast lump.
As others have said friends and family are what you need and the nurses are fab.