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Going 'completely' cold turkey can someone please congratulate me...?

6 replies

ThisTimeToday · 29/09/2014 00:03

Hi all,

Long time poster / lurker but have name-changed as i realise that in the big scheme of things this is quite ridiculous but it means something to me at least.

I was left completely broken hearted from break-up with ex DP, i've done a lot of soul searching and realised that he was a twat of the highest order.

i've gone through multiple episodes of reproaching myself over not leaving earlier, not seeing the signs and feelings bitterness over it all. I've even sometimes found myself fb stalking our mutual friends and his OW (now bit on the side) but i'm done with it all now.

i'm going entirely cold turkey on the stalking and reproaching. i've already been NC with him for nearly a year but i didn't / haven't bounced back like other people seem to until now. I just feel like this is the time to let go of it all.

Thanks for reading this far. That's it. I'm no longer interested in anything to do with him.

Onwards and upwards!

OP posts:
FeckTheMagicDragon · 29/09/2014 00:13

Congratulations! that is a huge leap forward to your new life, free from the cheating cockbadger who is totally not worthy of your head space!

AnyFucker · 29/09/2014 00:14

Sounds great to me ! Thanks

tipsytrifle · 29/09/2014 00:21

You can only heal as YOU do, not as someone else does so yes,

congratulations

The energy in your post is Awesome!

Drumdrum60 · 29/09/2014 00:25

Yes! Choose the right wolf as they say . We are in control of our own minds so don't clog and confuse it with obsession. Bet he's not . You are doing the right thing which is fabulous.

ThisTimeToday · 29/09/2014 01:10

Thanks all! Flowers

Here's to the future!

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hugefatso · 29/09/2014 01:33

That is great. I know how hard it is. Keep going, it's so positive!

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