My husband is not a british national so i know some of our differences in relationship style are cultural. Before I met him he owned a property which i moved into and now we are abroad his parents helped him buy a house here. Again in his name. Ive always contributed, heavily in UK, to our life together but now we are in his home country he pays for everything and that is the norm here for the most part. This has kind of snook up on me in a way but it feels a bit off because although i work i pay for stuff for house and for kids and contribute towards holidays etc and also pay for travel back to the uk which takes up a huge chunk of it. Sorry im rambling a bit. When we argue who owns what always comes up and he always tells me im living in his house which i think is really unfair. Again this has snook up on me because one relies on love and trust in a relationship bt he recently revealed he gets money from inheritance. Now, he said it kind of casually and it led me to think we are living separate lives here with me just following you whilst you realise your dreams but im not actualy creating anything as a team. Ive always been brought up to think that when you marry you join forces and create your own nest. That includes being able to call things your own, as a couple. It just doesnt feel right. Sometimes i feel like ive gone back in time to an archaic way of life as a wife. please let me have your thoughts on this one as i dont want to share this in RL with anyone.