My DD split up from her fiancé last year. Her fiance had been working abroad for a year, and whilst away, had a drunken fling with a colleague, who became pregnant. He was due to return to England when his secondment finished, to be present at his mums wedding, and also to start planning his own wedding with DD. As he was missing out on a lot of the preparations for his mums wedding, his sister did some videos which she would send to him to keep him in touch with what was happening. During the videos there were many references to how excited his mum was about planning his wedding when he got back to England. Included in the videos are lots of really lovely pictures of my DD, both with her ex fiancé, and with his family. The ex-fiances's sister works in a similar field to me, and out of curiosity last night I googled her, and followed a random link to u-tube. It seems these videos have been put together as a compilation, and put on u-tube shortly before the wedding, which was ironically the time that DD discovered the infidelity and ended the relationship. It is a lovely video, DD looks so beautiful, and so happy, and was clearly a loved member of their family. It ended with a picture of DD and ex fiancé, with the caption "next year this will be you" I have no idea if DD knows of the existence of this video being on u tube, she has very much moved on with her life, has a job she loves, great friends, still feels sad at times, but is ready to meet someone else. But it has made me feel really upset, and I am reliving the hurt and pain we had to support her through. Should I ask her if she knows of the existence of this video on u tube, of course, she may already know, but I am sure she would have told us about it.