I briefly separated from my DP after he displayed some jealous behaviour towards me. He got quite possessive about me spending time with some friends (some of whom were platonic male friends).
I know, I know massive red flag and that but we have recently got back together again as I do really love him and he promised that he will not do it again.
We have subsequently been on a bit of a honeymoon period.
Anyway today he let slip that he is going for dinner to a woman's house this week. She is cooking him dinner. It is on a night that we would usually spend together (due to work commitments it is both our night off). I am not invited. He said that he didn't know her very well and that he is going because he wants more friends in his area where he lives.
I can't help it but I feel extremely uncomfortable about this. I figure that it must have been arranged when were separated and therefore the context of the invitation and acceptance of it may have been with something more in mind. As a woman I would not invite a man who I did not know that well to my house unless I wanted to shag him or that both him and me were fully aware of the platonic-ness of the relationship.
Just to say as well, that I have never been the jealous or possessive type in relationships. It is just not something I have suffered from, even though I have had my heart broken before. So this is quite out of character.
I think it is also quite a big double standard seeing as he was so upset when I went out (in a public place!) with some male platonic friends (and women).
Am I going mental? Is he playing games with me? Would you be annoyed about this too? Is it triangulating - making me now jealous of him when it was the other way round a few months ago (and I think he had a lot less right to be jealous?).
Thanks in advance for your advice.