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have tried to end it all

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tisnotme · 21/09/2014 01:42

Never ever have I been like this before, have tried to cut my wrists

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tisnotme · 21/09/2014 01:44

sorry, really have tried but

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AnotherStitchInTime · 21/09/2014 01:52

You need medical help tis, are you bleeding badly? If so try to get a clean towel/tea towel/sheet and press down hard on the wound. Call 999.

Jerseyicecream · 21/09/2014 01:53

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pollypocket123 · 21/09/2014 02:00

Please please please call for help and let us know you are safe.

RabidFairy · 21/09/2014 02:04

You need to call 999 immediately and tell them what you've done.

BeachyKeen · 21/09/2014 02:56

You need to get help, and quickly. Call 999, and please ask for help.

tackytiger · 21/09/2014 04:09

Op are you ok?

Sweetmotherfudger · 21/09/2014 04:48

I hope you are ok. You need help as soon as possible. Come on you can do this. If you haven't done it pick up the phone now.

tipsytrifle · 21/09/2014 08:41

tisnotme - have you been to A&E or called a doctor out? Your wounds need treatment for sure. You also need emergency crisis involvement.

What has brought you to this devastating point?
Can you talk to us a little when you get back from the hospital? You may need stitches so I hope you have decided to get help for this. If you are still online and at home could you let us know you are ok?

AmyMumsnet · 21/09/2014 10:06

Hi Tisnotme,

We're so sorry to hear that you're feeling so low.

Our webguide has a lot of useful contacts that might be of some some help.

Thanks
Bloomingflower1 · 21/09/2014 10:27

You are not alone. We are with you.

tisnotme · 21/09/2014 10:38

I'm ok, I'm so sorry. I drank too much and fell asleep, the cuts aren't that bad. A friend is coming over soon, I feel broken and scared. My marriage is over and I'm finding it too hard.

Thank you for caring enough to reply, I feel bad for worrying people.

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Mrsgrumble · 21/09/2014 10:40

Don't feel as for worrying people. Thank god you are ok today. You are more important than anything. Open up to your friend. Please look after yourself.

We are all vulnerable and you have been though hell. Now it's time to get better for yourself. I hope you are ok xxx

handfulofcottonbuds · 21/09/2014 11:38

You've reached out for help on here and with your friend, you're very brave to do that.

Take all the support you can to help you get through this, you can get through this pain. I never thought I could but I did. You can do it lovely Thanks

tipsytrifle · 21/09/2014 22:37

It's such a relief that you are still with us. We are many, all round the clock, someone to talk with is always around. But still, do you need treatment from a nurse for your cuts. maybe in the morning? I think you should talk to the GP too. Is yours a nice GP where you can actually get in without having to give 6 weeks' notice of intent?

It's wonderful that you have a friend coming over. I hope you are currently talking about the shit time you are having. We're here when you need us. Please don't hurt yourself again?

tisnotme · 21/09/2014 23:43

No, I won't do it again - don't know what came over me really, sheer desperation in not wanting to have to face this I suppose. Attention seeking or a cry for help, I don't know but reading your lovely responses and the amazing support I have from friends and family make me realize I am worth something. (Even his family.)

I must not let him/his actions reduce me to that level ever again. I know this is going to be hard and I keep having major wobbles. My heart goes out to everyone else going through similar stuff - how human beings can hurt each other so much is beyond me. xx

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