I have been with my boyfriend for nearly ten years, we recently brought a house together and we get on great......but our sex life is non existent! I do love him lots but i dont know wether its just more as friends now. I recently went away with a friend and met a gorgeous fella who is just my type, we switched names n have been chatting on fb. He knows about my situation n he wants to come to see me..... I dont think i can help myself, im incredibly drawn to him! hes absolutley gorgeous! I dont wanna tell my bf incase it turns to nothing,i know that it would kill him if he ever even found out i was contemplating all this, i honestly dont think i could ever leave him but i feel i need to do this to see im still alive. Wat to do?