the other night while we were getting into bed, DH put his arms around me and I semi-jokingly said, "you know, I'm getting a gut...check it out" and his response was, "Uhh, no thanks!" and seemed to freeze up a bit (I'm not overweight by any means, but then again I do not have a chiselled 6 pack either-- I'm in my early 40s and did run a marathon this year and I can still pull off a bikini thank you very much). I then said, "you could say something nice to me, you know" and his answer was "you look ...good".
WTF is that?!