Really boring but making time for each other, romance and stuff when you are really busy.

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Hoow do you do it, I work full time but shifts so very random, nights, weekends mainly 12.5 hours so usually knackered. He works 9-5 mon - fri. 2 dc 11 and 8 staying up later say 8.30 and we are usually in bed for 10, 9 if I am working. How do you actually get any quality time (I hate that saying) to connecct with each other and maybe every know and again even have sex?

My other half works away, 15 hours a day, all we have is phone calls. Just make use of what youve got... We can both manage on 4-5 hours sleep a night, but i understand others are different. I must add we have 2 DD whom i take care of, as well as study and work.

We speak 2-3 times a day, text, photos ect ect. If you live together, there must be some time your both not working and get time together? Even if its just in bed talking and connecting? Or are you meaning doing activities together? Do you have enough time off simultaneously to get a babysitter?

Go to bed same time as children, shut/lock the door, watch movies and just have a relaxing time.