He's gone, next steps please.

[Darquesse]

Ok so my partner has gone. I am in a bit of shock but generally feel relieved about this. I knew it was on the cards but didn't expect him to make the decision and leave today. I have been unhappy in the relationship for awhile so this genuinely is for the best.

BUT what now? I mean in practical terms, what do I need to do? I will be a single mum to three children and I work part time so I guess I will be entitled to some financial help.

I have been here before but it is all such a blur I don't know what comes first.

Solicitors. Get your financial affairs in order and make sure that the maintenance and visitation of the children (assuming they are his children) are all in order. The sooner you start that process the better you will be.

Get some friends and support round you and make sure you have a shoulder to cry on.

I wish you all the best and hope happier things are around the corner.

Thanks Iconfuseus luckily we rent and the tenancy is in my name, our finances aren't really entwined although I agree I need to sort out maintenance and visitation.

I don't feel the need to cry just yet, maybe it will come but I just feel relieved.

tax credits? Have you looked at entitled to

Think of it as an opportunity to improve your life and make positive changes. Best of luck.

Brill thanks Hampton. I will pop over there now.

That's exactly how I am thinking of it.