Should I end it?

[Shiningstar4]

Basically, me and my boyfriend have been arguing for the last few days and he's shown no interest. Like he's not bothered when I tell him I'm upset and it's like he doesn't care. When I tell him does h want to break up he says no I want you and I love you, so I ask him to stop the arguing and be a proper partner he says no? When we use to argue before he would be nice and actually showed he cared? But he doesn't now. Then blames me and says the argument is my fault. Does this mean he's not interested anymore? What do I do?

Arguing can be a normal part of a relationship. Understanding and respecting your partners feelings is essential though.

How old are you both and how long have you been together?

Were still very young so normally people would say just to break up. But we have been together nearly two years, yes I know it's not long. But we have been together before. And also we have been through a lot together, and i really don't want to think of it as the end.

Has it just been this way for the last few days?

Hey hun you need to remember your both going through alot. Its understandable that your both under alot of pressure as this babies becoming more and more real as each day comes. Just because you argue and fight doesn't mean you don't love eachother or he dont love you, you both just have so much going on in your minds its normal to feel stressed. It will ease, the main thing is that YOU relax and try and talk with eachother and explain that you know its hard on both sides. The main thing is his still by your side, guys just panic alot about these kind of situations but after some time they do come round. Don't think about ending it because you need eachother more then ever!

"When I tell him does he want to break up he says no I want you and I love you"

Never put your life in someone else's hands. It's your life, your happiness, & your self-respect on the line. Give it casually away to someone else and don't be surprised if they piss all over it.

If you don't want a life of arguments, aggravation and unkindness and he's not coming up to scratch, have the courage to walk away.