Why don't I seem to attract men of my own age?

[CillaBlacksOrangeBouffant]

I'm 45. Last three partners have been 23 30 and 33 and now I have a 29 year old expressing a strong interest.

It's very nice, and I don't have an issue with it per se, I have my own house etc, grown up children and not interested in having more. Not particularly looking for a relationship either. I've been single for three years now so it's not that I'm being seen out and about with young beaus.

I don't dress provocatively, I don't go clubbing or anything like that.. I'm flattered but baffled.

The joke is they think they're going to get an easy ride with me

A-HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

hahaha Daffs,

I too know what I want, and I am perfectly able to provide most of it for myself, and in terms of behaviour etc.. I've been on these boards to know what to look for and my bullshit radar is well honed :o

*boards long enough to know

Not out looking for another relationship so soon after our breakup but am taking notes for the future ... "do not assume that younger blokes won't be up for it"...

absolutely ravenmum.. when you feel ready, go out and get back on the horse and ride it like you're winning the grand national :o